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Tuesday, 14 July 2026

Beat the heat with miniskirts

 We enter Phase 3 of the 2026 European Heat Dome. It's not actually that hot where I live and it's been consistently in the low 30s centigrade for a month. But the problem is that for the last month there has been no variation between day and night temperatures, between air, land and sea temperatures, between being indoors and outdoors, between being in the shade or in the sun. It's all the same. 

Sleeping has been difficult and last week I was starting to feel unwell as a result. Sure, you can cool a room down with air conditioning but the moment you leave you notice the difference. The other problem is that buildings are now not dissipating heat at night since there's nowhere cooler to give heat off to other than into your air conditioned room, the systems are straining and, with the fuel crisis, it's not cheap.

I've just been tidying up some photos and found one a trans friend sent of her sitting on a big lump of ice in Greenland and I thought, "That looks really refreshing!"

Anyway, according to the old adage that horses sweat, gentlemen perspire but ladies merely glow, I am well aware that I was glowing a lot in my photos last week. So I thought it was time to try out some even cooler items. Two jersey miniskirts I haven't worn in years seemed like a good choice. 

The blue patterned one I paired with a silver-grey sleeveless top with lace detail and wedge sandals, with toeless gossamer-thin summer tights. Yes, I should really have painted toenails but I didn't have time. 

It was very bright outdoors so most of the photos were taken indoors, but here's one on the terrace that wasn't too swamped with light.

 


 

 

Nice to revive this old mini. And I'm beginning to see those old curves again. 

I tried one black jersey miniskirt next (I have three!) with a near sleeveless black shirt and high heels. Again, I was pleased to see my curves enhanced by the slimming I have done, by the clinging skirt, by a little bit of padding in my bra and by the high heels. This could be officewear, I reckon. Maybe it'd be worth my working in an office again if this was part of the dress code?

 

These are the new heels I bought at the end of last year for no good reason other than I loved them. Here they break the all-over black and match my necklace.

 

The late afternoon sun was impossibly bright so by now I had to don sunglasses and the only thing properly visible is my sunlit legs. But I think they're looking good.

 

I wondered about a summer evening style and came up with this using my very old light three-quarter length floral skirt, the same shirt and black suede kitten heels. 

 

The skirt has an elasticated waist so it's always made regular appearances no matter my size.

I'm not sure if the shirt is best left out or tucked into the waist?

 

Anyway, that was a continuation of my try-on sessions with items that I haven't worn for a while or haven't combined with new items before.

The neighbours are back now and one stuck his head round the partition yesterday evening to say hi (I wish he wouldn't do that but it's normal enough behaviour here). This means I won't be outdoors in my skirts again for a while.

The slimming continues apace and the one good thing about the heat is that it's killed my appetite. I have big plans for next week and I intend to look good. More on that next time ...

Have a good week. Stay cool.

Sue x 

Friday, 10 July 2026

Being a model: a family tradition

 I've been taking advantage of a bit of peace and quiet this week to try out some old items that I couldn't get into when I was overweight. Monday's post was about my black daisy dress outdoors, and Tuesday's about styling a short denim skirt indoors. 

Yesterday was hot and sticky outdoors but I was determined to take advantage of the ongoing privacy to try out various combinations of miniskirts, tops, shoes and one or two other items for summer, like this summery skirt and kitten heel combination, which would make a good summer evening outfit, I think. 


But I propose to sort through the photos and post about the combinations I came up with next week. Today I want to talk about my trip to Nice's art shops as a followup to my post the other week about My Transgender Artworks 

So last Saturday I took the train across the border to France and had a day in Nice. It was hot but it's never too oppressive here by the sea. I tend to go to Nice about once a month as it's a big city full of big shops that sell things you can't get locally in my smaller town, and there's food that's different, especially a lot of ethnic restaurants that are not really a thing in Italy. I mean, Italian food is lovely, but sometimes you need a change. For lunch, therefore, I enjoyed a curry in an Indian restaurant. And I was happy to reward myself at the end of a successful day with a huge ice-cream sundae. I've been so good with the slimming that I've earned it!


Mainly, though, I went to the big art materials shops and got some fancy oil paints, a top quality canvas and some new hogshair brushes. I went for the most expensive brands because I think that if you're going to do something creative with your own hands, do it properly. For everything else, there's AI!
I wanted Michael Harding paints which I know well and which that shop claims to stock but not in its Nice branch, so I went for Old Holland paints which are costly but loaded with pigment and should last years. I see it as an investment. You don't really need more than white, black, red, blue, umber and sienna to create virtually any colour yourself but I treated myself to a bright yellow and a flesh pink to make life easier. The canvas has already been sized and gessoed because I can't be bothered with all that preparation (rabbit-skin size is gelatin made from animal skin and, frankly, you don't want to know what you have to do to a bunny to get it! Kidding, rabbit is just a description of the consistency. Like cat gut or orange pekoe tea or Bombay duck, it's not what you'd expect.)

Let's see what sort of self-portrait I can come up with as part of this new trans art project. One of the reasons for taking quite a few photos this week was to use one as the basis for a painting. My face isn't so photogenic as my clothes, though, but this is the advantage of paint. The camera never lies, they say, but paint can flatter a less attractive subject. Given that one of my grandmothers was a fashion model when young in the 1930s and my mother has always been strikingly chic, especially as a young woman in the 1960s, I have an impossible act to follow, in any case. 

A painting will emerge in due course. If I like it, I'll try a full-length picture after that.

 

Pro-LGBT celebs news

I'm sad to hear of the passing the other day of singer-songwriter Bonnie Tyler. You'll find ample tribute to her in the music press and general media. I mention her not only because she was very pro-LGBT, a genuine ally, but also because it was dancing to her Holding out for a Hero that The Great Drag Race I took part in in 2010 set the world record for the largest number of dancing drag queens. That was a memorable occasion and I described it here: A trip down Memory Card Lane: The Great Drag Race. Thank you, Bonnie, for your support. Rest in peace.

Sad also to hear of the passing of Victor Willis of the Village People who turned American macho aesthetics on its head through his camp disco hits. This did so much to make LGBT culture popular, mainstream and unthreatening. Hell, even Donald Trump liked him enough to create a nice contradiction in his gay-bashing. Phobics always present specific types of minority people as a dangerous threat to a properly ordered society; Willis may have done more to neutralise that false notion of threat than anyone else in the Seventies. Right-wing homophobia now is not making as much progress as it once could, precisely because of the infectious, harmless, open-to-all exuberance of artistry like this. May he rest in peace, also.

Mel Brooks has celebrated his 100th birthday and he's been a good ally to the LGBT community. In fact, his cheeky rendering of many gay and crossdressing characters and insistence that their scenes not be cut or toned down actually made it clear to producers of stage and screen that there are more LGBT people in the performing arts that almost any other industry. Hollywood and Broadway still have a way to go to be fully inclusive but its thanks to efforts like these that they've made progress at all. Humour is a powerful weapon in that it presents seriousness and tragedy in that non-threatening way that brings a wider audience. Thanks for the laughs and the allyship.

 

Wildlife news

I have a round concrete planter that wasn't being used for anything so I threw old garden sweepings and vegetable scraps in it and created a sort of compost heap. But plants are nothing if not resilient and it's now a thriving bowl of succulents, onions, parsley, grasses and other vegetation. I was impressed by the assortment of stuff that refused to die so I started watering it regularly. A few weeks ago I was squirting the hose at it and a tiny young grasshopper popped out. Harry Hopper is his name and he is now quite a bit bigger so I squirt a few warning drops first so he can get out of the way of the water jet. 

I think he's just a grasshopper not a locust, but I live on the 6th floor so I wonder how he got up here. OK, he might have flown even as a tiny youngster, or maybe he was dropped by a bird. Could he even have been born here from an egg in old soil? He's welcome, though, just as Laura the Lizard was in 2022 when she lived in my vegetable pots, visibly growing over the summer, and Genghis and Guinevere the geckos before that. If Harry was born in this mixed plant heap then it's the only world he's ever known. Anyway, I'll keep making this random collection of plants green for him so he's got plenty to munch on.

Harry Hopper's home. Untidy but edible!

We have some cicadas in the trees in the garden who make plenty of noise, which I love as it's so characteristic of summer. If Harry's male, maybe he'll start chirping, which would be nice. Female grasshoppers don't tend to chirp, or nothing like as loudly. I may have to change 'his' name to Henrietta Hopper depending on what I can work out about this little creature.

Sue x 

Tuesday, 7 July 2026

... the mouse will play! (plus: forest fire)

 To continue the theme of Monday's post, I have been trying out old items that I haven't been able to wear for some years through having been a bit too keen on pizza and not keen enough on the gym. To coin a cliché.

After my evening foray in a daisy motif black cotton dress (with pockets!), I tried a 20-year-old denim skirt and it fit perfectly. Now it's definitely been a while since that button and zip could be done up properly so that's really pleasing as denim skirts are such easy items to combine with things. I went for a pink tee that I bought years ago but have never worn before, and two types of pink shoes, flats and heels. The colour of the heels matched the top a bit better than the coral pink flats. 

 

I chose some pale nude fishnet tights, very cheap ones from Primark these, but they do the job of adding a bit of cuteness and fun to the outfit. And open knit tights are way better in hot weather. 

 

I still need a bit off the tummy as it shows when I sit down but I think this is a nice casual summer look. 

 

A correspondent said I should post more photos so I hope they're satisfied now!

 

I hope to manage more try-ons this week.

 

Forest fires

I'm sorry to say, we've had our first forest fire of the season. It started last night not far from Triora, the village of witches I wrote about at Hallowe'en a few years ago (link: Cackle Cackle). 

Normally the forest rangers and fire brigade can handle these but this morning they called in a helicopter to drop water and later we had a couple of Canadair tankers circle home a few times as they scooped up water from the sea to dump it. I'm pleased to hear that the fire's now under control. 

 

Wave at the pilot as he flies past!

 

Scoop the juice. Let's just hope there are no dinghies and surfboarders ahead!


A dip in the archives

It's worrying to have a fire this early in the season. Not as spectacular as the one that burnt for almost a week on the mountainside nearby that filled the air with woodsmoke and red flames by night. 

That one was in August 2023 and, as I haven't had a dip in the archives for a while, see my post from that time, Superheroine costume ready to don. It also has photos of my trip to the Cutty Sark in London ten years earlier in my favourite summer dress and leggings. These are some of my favourite pictures. 

Sue x 

Monday, 6 July 2026

When the cats are away...

 I noticed that all my immediate neighbours are away today. This means I can take a few photos outdoors in the evening light without questions being asked. Although people are not especially nosey or lean over the wall to chat much, most of the partition between properties is glass and so there's no proper privacy ... unless they're out. 

I'm wearing a summer dress that I've not been able to get into properly as a dress for quite some while, although it's doubled as a tunic with leggings on occasion. I tried it with an enhancer bra but I realised I'm still not quite slim enough for that and couldn't fasten the buttons at the front of the dress without gaps showing between them so I've just got a normal underwired bra and my natural bust. My tummy is almost flat now; just a few more kilos / pounds to lose and I'll be seeing more of an hourglass figure again at last. I have to thank the hot weather for killing my appetite ... although ice cream does feature quite regularly!

I don't do bare legs even if it is 32°C (90°F) so my soft micronet tights in a dark natural shade (these ones by Jonathan Aston) are doing good service in shaping my legs, matching my tan and keeping me cool. I thought some black ballet flats would match the look best.

Here's me just now with Arnold the Olive (and the little palm tree that some bird seeded last year and which is also coming along). 






It is lovely being a woman. And being outdoors in a little dress in the warm is the cherry (or three cherries) on that particular cake.

Sue x