tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-182477363609341716.post5508366918871460161..comments2024-03-28T21:20:16.151+01:00Comments on Sue's news and views: When surgery goes wrongSue Richmondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14881573928883759984noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-182477363609341716.post-22908040071435698002013-08-21T01:22:32.490+02:002013-08-21T01:22:32.490+02:00Thanks for commenting, Becca. Yes, she has been de...Thanks for commenting, Becca. Yes, she has been desperately unlucky and I am hoping that she will be all OK eventually. I just hope nothing like this ever happens to anyone else. Good luck with your transition, honey. Sue xSue Richmondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14881573928883759984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-182477363609341716.post-15943274314840151712013-08-20T23:39:16.447+02:002013-08-20T23:39:16.447+02:00Eeeek ..... This is a very sad outcome and I am su...Eeeek ..... This is a very sad outcome and I am sure you friend counts herself as very unlucky. I do hope that any 'loss' can be made good and she heels well. I am sure you will pass on all good wishes to her.<br /><br />To be honest I am not sure its put me off though ..... Mad ... maybe, but I am still looking forward to th time when I can leave the reminders of the male well in the past ....Beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14342124169953960479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-182477363609341716.post-86332853632411423462013-08-20T13:33:34.739+02:002013-08-20T13:33:34.739+02:00Thanks for your comment and kind thoughts, Remi. I...Thanks for your comment and kind thoughts, Remi. I'm hoping the outcome will be positive in the end. I do know that so many people have shown her so much love and care over the last few weeks that she can rest reassured that, whatever happens, she has a life full of love ahead of her. Sue xSue Richmondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14881573928883759984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-182477363609341716.post-57153765957877022062013-08-20T13:27:33.491+02:002013-08-20T13:27:33.491+02:00Thanks, Em. You are one of the pioneers of positiv...Thanks, Em. You are one of the pioneers of positive transition and are an example of how, overall, things can go really well. My friend said to me that, despite the disaster, she knows she did the right thing and that she is happy, though this has certainly been a test of her resolution. Frankly, if anyone has proved a worthy case for intervention, it's her, so I'm hoping that all will be well in the end. Sue xSue Richmondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14881573928883759984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-182477363609341716.post-71227237449231052642013-08-20T13:16:39.588+02:002013-08-20T13:16:39.588+02:00Thanks for your comment, Ann. Diversity reflects n...Thanks for your comment, Ann. Diversity reflects nature and I'm with you that the different ways we manifest ourselves are all OK. I too mix happily with anyone who's decent and humane and, frankly, for my part, I'm not sure that gender really comes into that much any more. Sue xSue Richmondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14881573928883759984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-182477363609341716.post-67703313759820965052013-08-20T10:36:34.671+02:002013-08-20T10:36:34.671+02:00That's horrific! I can remember when I went fo...That's horrific! I can remember when I went for my pre-surgical appointment where they went through all of the possible problems that might arise from the surgery. Some of them sounded really bad. The thing is (and I think that this is what makes a transsexual) that despite these possible outcomes I went through with surgery. I'd go through it a million times if I had to and I'm sure that your friend feels the same despite her problems. I really hope that Mr Bellringer can weave his magic and correct things and that your friend gets the happy ending she deserves. x Emmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17707861516638220648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-182477363609341716.post-48084529916683798982013-08-20T09:10:18.257+02:002013-08-20T09:10:18.257+02:00Wow, that is an unfortunate and terrible outcome. ...Wow, that is an unfortunate and terrible outcome. My thoughts are with your friend. I hope they fix the damage they have done and she has a healthy, long life full of love!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-182477363609341716.post-16216906261473759872013-08-20T06:51:23.783+02:002013-08-20T06:51:23.783+02:00Oh my what a horror story Sue. I am with you, that...Oh my what a horror story Sue. I am with you, that route is not for me either. <br />I do so wish that those in our community would realise that we all do this for many, many different reasons and follow as many routes to our goal as there are reasons. What is right for one is not for another. We are all, as in the wider world, different, thank god. No one is right and no one is wrong, we are just different. It is called diversity and we should celebrate it.<br />Transsexualism or by what ever name you wish to call it, depending upon your point of view, can become a collection of exclusive little clubs and I for one have never felt the need to belong to an exclusive club. I prefer to inhabit the wider world and revel in its diversity. <br />Here endeth the lesson :-)Ann Drogynyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09342212367779637616noreply@blogger.com