So I have been doing some research into London pubs with the
help of other TGirls. This is, naturally, principally for the benefit of TGirls
who might like to know of a few decent places to visit if they ever find
themselves thirsty in the big city. Big city thirst is a terrible affliction so
I feel that our endeavours for the benefit of transkind will be appreciated in
the true spirit of charity in which they were undertaken.
Last week my smiley friend Gillian came to mine to get ready
and we drove to meet my lovely pal Grace at the Vauxhall Griffin in South
London, a nice quiet comfortable pub with an array of varied seating and
a teeny beer garden. The staff were friendly and the ladies’ loos are
fantastic. A great place for a catch-up with both girls.
In the Vauxhall Griffin's tiny beer garden. (This is actually Gillian's photo which is even smilier than the ones on my camera)
Tuesday was a beautiful day and I really didn’t want to be
indoors so I met Joanne (who features here regularly) on the roof terrace of
the Lyric Theatre in Hammersmith, West London. (Hammersmith is where the
Charing Cross Hospital is, home of one of the gender clinics.) I stupidly
didn’t take a photo but it is nice up there with its wooden benches and tables
and climbing plants away from the crowds and traffic. The chilled white wine
slipped down very well in the sunshine.
We decided that a pub garden would be the ideal place for a
bite to eat so we went to the Hampshire Hog further along King Street near
Ravenscourt Park, which has a delightful beer garden. The white and rosé wines
were very nice. I felt my bowl of pappardelle pasta with mixed veg created a
very good mix of flavours and textures but all the food was pricey. So enjoy a
drink there but eating, though decent, is not worth the money.
After just missing our friend Saffy who had just been
discharged from the hospital (sorry, Saff, but lunch always takes priority), and after attending to other matters there, we set
off by tube for the West End. The Wellington pub at the bottom of Wellington
Street has tables outside where you can look along Waterloo Bridge or down the
Strand. It’s always quite busy but serves a decent range of better quality drinks. I’m
a sucker for fruit ciders and Nicholson’s pubs are well stocked with these.
You know, before I started going out as a TGirl the fear was
put into me that pubs were full of transphobic yobs ready to knife any girl who
ventured in. This is not true. At all. Earlier this year I thought of starting
a new blog devoted to all places which were “trans-friendly” but I’ve realised
that essentially anywhere is as welcoming to trans people as it is to any other
customer. And the other punters just mind their own business, unless you chat to them and make friends, of course. So instead, when I get round to it, I shall simply put up a new blog
about good places to eat, drink, visit, shop at and so on for the benefit of
anyone who visits London.
Sue x
Your confidence is inspiring (I wish I had more) and on a slightly more frivolous note your progress around the drinking and eating establishments of London is admirable :-).
ReplyDeleteFond memories of Hammersmith and long drinking nights of my youth. fun days.
Thanks for your nice comment, Becca. I know you understand that my research into London's food and drink is purely a humane endeavour to ensure that people can be informed about what's out there. ;-)
DeleteHere's an open invitation for you to join me and my friends when you want to. The confidence comes mainly from expanding the comfort zone little by little till eventually you feel able to do whatever you want. There's actually very little prejudice and strife out there, just our own irrational fears.
Sue x
Hoping to come and visit (if invited) over the Christmas break to do some more serious research Sue xx
DeleteI truly believe that we are seen as part of society now from Jo and Joe Public's view. It just that we need to get out there are prove it to ourselves. Shops, pubs, cafes, restaurants, wherever... Feel the confidence swelling through us. You are a flag-bearer to the cause, Sue :-)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Tanya. And you do your fair share of Public Visibility Duty, too. But, yes, the Great British Public are perfectly decent towards TGirls 99% of the time. I've actually had more compliments and kindness shown to me when out and about en femme than I have had negativity, and more positive treatment as a woman than as a man. Confidence and courtesy on our part are the keys to success. Sue x
DeleteAnother boozy sales shopping spree with Emma, then. Oh well, someone's got to carry her home!
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