Monday, 30 June 2025

So how did Pride month go?

 Last Saturday was Milano Pride in Italy. Despite the heat, 350,000 people turned out. That's equivalent to more than a quarter of the population of the city.

It was also Budapest pride in Hungary. Despite being made illegal by the government, that Pride event attracted 200,000 people. That includes politicians from other countries keen to be seen to promote rights over autocracy.

I hear that in Britain, the anti-trans ruling from the Supreme Court is being watered down even by that court. As I've mentioned before, all sorts of cis political commentators who don't normally touch on LGBT matters have criticised the ruling and the government. 

And also in Britain, Thurso, a small town of just 9000 souls in the furthest north of Scotland, held its first ever Pride. 1000 people attended that, a stunning turnout for somewhere so small and remote. 

By contrast, I hear that a Straight Pride event in Boise, Idaho (population: a quarter of a million), billed as a "hetero awesomeness festival", not only had an underwhelming attendance (about 50), as seems so often to be the case, but it was crashed by a pro-LGBT singer. 

These are just some take-aways from the last few days. I give these attendance vs population figures because so far this year neither I and almost no-one I know, despite all being in the LGBT+community, have managed to get to a Pride event, so it shows how vast the LGBT community and its allies must be. 

Whilst there is a lot of very noisy and very nasty transphobia and other hate out there, I think the world turned a corner a long time ago and being queer in all its lovely forms is something most straight/cis people see as OK. Different, but OK. Current anti-LGBT legislation is now associated with violent and autocratic leaders so is not, in the end, going to benefit the few phobics. As a very simple - simplistic, if you will - summary of our present situation, not only does history show that autocracy is usually short-lived but our current autocrats, actual and aspiring, are remarkably incompetent and therefore likely to fail soon. When they're gone and condemned, as all such characters end up being, their transphobia will be part of that condemnation. So this current persecution is likely to work in our favour in the long run. I see this massive increase in support for LGBT Pride events, especially where the government is anti, as evidence of a better future, and that the public is broadly with us.

Stay colourful. 


 

Stay cool 

I love hot weather. My Optimum Operating Temperature has always been 28°C, even with a wig on. But it's currently 37°C in the shade (that's 99°F) as I'm posting this, and around 30° at night, and it's not even the height of summer yet. 

Mind you, the resultant lack of appetite plus exertion in the pool is working wonders for my (interminable) weight loss programme. 

Sue x

8 comments:

  1. It was very nice to hear of the Hungary pride. I have not been to one yet myself, Leeds and Wakefield are later in the year, those are my normal ones.

    28 is too much for me, my optimum is 21 :)

    Glad the weight loss programme is going well !

    Izzy x


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    1. Thanks, Izzy. Yes, that defiant Pride sounds pretty special. If you make it to a local Pride this year, have a good time. Flash that smile :-)

      Sue x

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  2. I'm not proud that I missed writing anything about Pride Month on my blog. I am in a strange situation of being trans and queer and proud of it, and yet having to be in the closet at home, to avoid exacerbating my wife's mental health issues which are caused by her illness. I'm not proud of that. I would like to try and attend one of the local Pride events that are being held later in the year, in full Dee mode. It might make me feel less of a charlatan. xx

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    1. Dear Dee, my lovely friend. No-one is under any obligation to do anything about Pride. You don't have to feel pride, you don't have to put yourself out and you don't have to beat yourself up. Most people are still in the closet and, given the vast turnout at these things, I'm beginning to think that a majority of people must actually secretly be LGBTQ+ anyway! Logistics and worry about outing myself to the neighbourhood makes it very hard for me to attend and you have your own very real practical and personal reasons for focusing on other things. And that's fine. You're still a valuable and valued trans woman. Sue x

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  3. "...Straight Pride..."

    As my lovely wifey said with bombastic side eye: "Every day is cis-het Pride day." 🙃

    Good luck on keeping off the chilled wine and ice creams, and sticking to salads.

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    1. Thanks, Lynn. Yes, it's like that standard reply to kids when they ask that since there's a Mothers' Day and a Fathers' Day then why isn't there a Children's Day... Some transphobes are best treated like kids.

      Yes, you have spotted the main summertime obstacles in the path of a slimming fan!

      Sue x

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  4. Oh yes, stay colourful....we will...hopefully. It was great to see and hear about the huge number of people who were part of the pride-parades dispite some troubles and restrictions. I think hairless on the body is better all the year. I do not epilate...too painful...I shave them every to two days. I read in your newest post about growing breasts....do you take hormones or do the grow by themselves?.
    Have a good time and not too hot summer
    Violetta

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    1. Thanks, Violetta.

      I have never taken hormones and never would without a doctor. No, these are growing by themselves, like mushrooms!

      This week should be cooler for everyone.

      Sue x

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